If your child is tying their worth to a number, Claire’s story is one to share. It is for parents, students and anyone untangling self-worth from performance.<\/p>\n
Have you ever achieved something others celebrate but still felt like you fell short? Claire Tonti is a former teacher turned musician, filmmaker, podcaster and CEO. <\/p>\n
She grew up in a high-achieving family quietly believing she was not smart enough, and when she finished school with an ATAR of 89.95 it still felt like failure. <\/p>\n
Her path did not follow a neat line; she found herself through creativity, performance and building communities. This is an honest conversation about unspoken family expectations, the weight of comparison, and why perfectionism disconnects us from who we really are. <\/p>\n
One score does not define you, but one conversation can change how you see yourself.<\/p>\n
What you\u2019ll hear in this episode:
\n\u2022\tWhy an excellent ATAR can still feel like failure
\n\u2022\tGrowing up with unspoken expectations in a high-achieving family
\n\u2022\tHow perfectionism disconnects us from who we really are
\n\u2022\tCreativity as an outlet and a lifeline
\n\u2022\tHelping a child feel enough beyond their achievements
\n\u2022\tUntangling self-worth from performance<\/p>\n
One score doesn\u2019t define you, but one conversation can change how you see yourself.<\/p>\n
More Than a Score: Redefining Success Beyond School is hosted by Laura Pitt and Dan Steele, a former teacher and award-winning school leader on the Mornington Peninsula, Victoria. New episodes fortnightly. Subscribe to follow along.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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