If your child quietly compares themselves to high-achieving siblings or peers, this honest
\nconversation will help. Note: It briefly discusses suicide, so please choose what feels right for you.<\/p>\n
What happens when the thing you worked so hard to achieve makes you question what success even means? Melissa Lozanovski is an educator, leader, former founding principal, and mum. <\/p>\n
At school, she compared herself to academically high-achieving siblings and carried quiet pressure to measure up. She entered teaching young, led early, and built a new school from the ground up, while privately navigating grief, burnout, and a health scare that forced harder questions about what matters. <\/p>\n
Her framework of becoming, belonging, and lifelong learning offers parents a hopeful way to think about success beyond grades, titles, and recognition, and why every child’s path unfolds differently.<\/p>\n
\ud83c\udfa7 What You\u2019ll Discover In this episode:
\n\u2022\tHow comparison with siblings and peers shapes a child’s confidence
\n\u2022\tWhy one adult believing in a young person changes everything
\n\u2022\tThe emotional weight that can sit behind outward success
\n\u2022\tProtecting wellbeing while chasing achievement
\n\u2022\tWhy belonging and emotional safety matter for growth
\n\u2022\tThinking about success beyond grades and titles<\/p>\n
Know someone with a unique story or path? Share it with us at morethanascorepod@gmail.com!<\/p>\n
If this conversation brings anything up for you, support is available:
\n\u2022 Lifeline Australia (24\/7)
\nhttps:\/\/www.lifeline.org.au or 13 11 14
\n\u2022 Beyond Blue:
\nhttps:\/\/www.beyondblue.org.au or 1300 22 46 36
\n\u2022 Kids Helpline (for people aged 5\u201325): https:\/\/kidshelpline.com.au or 1800 55 1800<\/p>\n
More Than a Score: Redefining Success Beyond School is hosted by Laura Pitt and Dan Steele, a former teacher and award-winning school leader on the Mornington Peninsula, Victoria. New episodes fortnightly. Subscribe to follow along.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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